The family of a man murdered by his girlfriend urged other men to come forward if they are suffering from domestic violence.
Emma Walsh was jailed for life with a minimum term of 18 years for the murder of her partner Gary Morgan. Walsh knifed the 36-year-old to death at her home on Lavan Close in Everton on the evening of April 10 this year.
On Friday last week, she was unanimously convicted of murder by a jury after only one hour and 37 minutes of deliberations. The 31-year-old was sentenced today at Liverpool Crown Court, where she sat turned away from the public gallery at all times during the hearing.
There’s a lot more to this in the broader sense. Yes, the initial surprise is the 18 years, rather than the usual 3 months when it’s female, or released on compassionate grounds because it has womanly bits and gushes tears … though the ‘womanly bits’ are not a given these days.
I plead guilty to enabling such behaviour in my personal case. She was physical in every way, positively I mean, but so was I and during this attack or that by her, five percent of the time, the other ninety-five percent happy or sullen, a full nelson usually calmed things after a while. Obviously I should have cut all ties and gone my own way but I didn’t and any male inside a female’s orbit knows why. In fact, in a way, it was quite cute and she never threw crockery, to her credit, it was always direct.
Most of the time though, I’d just walk out, literally, for twenty minutes (don’t sleep in the subway, darling … Petulia knew the game) … mainly so I would not overdo it and once when I got back, the place was trashed in the sense that she’d carefully placed piles of books and papers creatively around on the rug, while she went to her mother’s for the night. And it was her mother too. The physical clinch was usually the better way.
Right, so what to make of female behaviour? Well, we could start with estrogen, then touch on the old chivalry and it is relevant because I don’t know a man who has physically got stuck into a woman … I mean, that would be cowardly, wouldn’t it, one just didn’t, one restrained her and soothed with words … different matter though with another male and most males I knew … well we just didn’t go physical either, unlike meatheads, we kept a respectful physical distance and just had a laugh about whatever. What’s the point of M.A.D.? Lunacy.
And there are our double standards, I quite admit it. In my mind, the gals have their strengths, very real strengths, we have ours, the rest is common to both. To my mind, this stabbed man in this tale was a bit wimpy, truth be told and that’s just red rag to a female bull in her case, as this Walsh has now discovered the consequences of.
Treat men and women alike? In the eyes of the law, yes, plus rich and poor, indigenous and invader. But on a one-to-one level … come on … you know very well what she radiates, you know her spell, and any gal uses such as one of her weapons. Why not?
Which does not answer the question of consequences of actions in general between any two parties. There must be fair, simply stated laws, no-discretion consequences in sentencing, everyone in the society knowing what will happen. Plus evenhanded judges, male or female.
Ah, but how to achieve that?
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