Unless we, men and women, get this sorted … we’re goners

The very first problem we have in even discussing this below is the toxic relations between the sexes today, deliberately induced by the authors of Wokism up above … see Douglas Murray … 

This post might not even start to make sense without at least checking out what he said and what the three lasses below said, before even getting onto our Julia … I can only speak for myself here but unless we actually wish for good relations between the sexes … genuinely want that, all resentments set aside for now … it first requires a number of things in a man, then in a woman:

Christy O Misty

Emily W King

Courtney Ryan

a.  They genuinely love and admire the other “species”, noting its shortcomings, yes, but also seeing the wunnerful things in the other … that’s the first and greatest requirement … and I am not referring to biological necessity here nor getting off on a woman’s body nor her getting off on his shlong.

It has to be genuine liking for their company, wanting them around … see Courtney specifically above.

b.  The second imperative is to choose whom to speak with … this is such an explosive matter today that the misplaced disrespectful dismissal disqualifies that woman in my mind. If her thang is scoring points, then she can just eff off, I’m not wasting my time.

I’d probably not even waste my breath on this lot:

… for all the reasons we’ve posted over and over, maybe summed up nicely in this recent news item:

The Feminist Majority Foundation, along with Feminist Campus, Equal Rights Advocates, Girls Inc, Women’s Legal Defense and Education Fund, Trust Women, United State of Women, and the National Organization for Women, and numerous feminist groups signed a letter attacking the federal ‘Protection of Women and Girls in Sports Act’ for daring to protect women from suffering the way that Payton and other female athletes had.

That lot don’t give a rat’s arse for the welfare of women, only for their me me me selves.

Then there is the age/generation issue in itself, best commented on by a woman of experience, in this case Agatha Christie in her short story with the wizened old Mr. Satterthwaite. 

“I was such a foolish girl - girls are foolish, Mr. Satterthwaite. They are so sure of themselves, so convinced they know best. People write and talk a lot about women's instinct. I don't believe, Mr. Satterthwaite, that there is any such thing. There doesn't seem to be anything that warns girls against a certain type of man. Nothing in themselves, I mean. Their parents warn them but that's no good - one doesn't believe. It seems dreadful to say so but there is something attractive to a girl in being told anyone is a bad man. She thinks at once her love will reform him.”

[Agatha Christie, 1934]

This is discussed in great detail by Emily and Courtney above and though they’re speaking primarily about today’s dating scene, the general principles apply, plus one more thing:

c.  If the lady often goes in to bat for the man … she has a history of it … and if the man’s first instinct is also always to support and defend the gal … is that not a great basis for communication?  I mean we can actually get somewhere then between the sexes, stymying all those who would try to split us … for their political reasons.

But so much white noise can get in the way, so many things get said which are unhelpful … we have to really, really want this.

Ulterior motive? Well yes, in my case. No longer in the dating game, what’s in it for me?

Well it’s like this … unless we start the rapprochement between us, start pairing off again, marrying, procreating, both father and mother at home … then we can see what’s going on out there within our own western peoples … plus we’re going to be overrun by the barbarians … it may already be too late, I hope and pray not.

But ladies and gentlemen … we really must adjust our thinking … NOW … otherwise we’re goners.