Sunday, 17 July 2022

When the father is neglected by the mother

 Andrea Widburg, at American Thinker, wrote:

In 1870, Harper's Bazaar published a picture of Cornelia, Mother of the Gracchi, hugging her children as she said to a sneering, jewelry-bedecked Roman matron, "These are my jewels."  The picture fascinated me as a child, especially when I learned that the boys grew up to become famous politicians and philanthropists in pre-Christian Rome. (Because this was Rome, neither ended well, but that's another story.) Reading about the late Ivana Trump's life, I was reminded of Cornelia's words and thought they apply as well to Ivana.
She compared it to the dysfunctional Biden family, one of the dozens blighting the world and whilst Andrea is right 80% of the way, she's completely forgotten one minor factor ... the father ... the final 20%. 

He's either a nothing in the mix or just an adjunct who provides, nothing more.

With that sort of attitude, welcome to single motherhood on the settlement of the divorce or on government [read taxpayer] handout, an aberration on every count possible.  What that Widburg is demonstrating to her children is that the father does not matter.  And yet she demands full commitment from him in perpetuity.  So tell me again who breaks down marriages?  And what are the stats on who initiates divorces, male-female?  Hmmmm?

Compare that to two videos below, plus a quote from a ladyfriend of mine:

First video:


The most unusual thing there is a mother of four, very much with hubby, is so pro men.  I confess that what she says, all very nice for us, is not the most vital part.  The most vital part is THAT she would even think to make such a video in the first place.  Can you imagine Ms Widburg doung that, let alone the third wave child feminazis?

Second video:

This is sad, because anyone neglected ... whether a forgotten wife at home while hubby puts it about with the females or a neglected father ... whichever it is, either way ... the neglected party is going to sing a song like that.


The third item is taken from something a ladyfriend of mine said and I hasten to add that she is as pro man as Christy in video one above and that's a vital thing.  Not sure who said it first and I absolutely agree with this.  We all mock the demi-female harpies howling their Woke demands and we all laugh at their ban on nooky which we all fervently pray they'll continue ...

... but what of the low quality of men today?  They're either Woke wimps in the workplace with wispy beards or full death cult bushes, they're full on MGTOW or there's something quite wrong.

A fellow gabber  @gigigirau83 provides all the evidence we need. She mentions that she goes running with a group of retired navy seals ... quick calculation shows they retire early but the point is ... why that pool of guys, why not Mr. Smug Clever Punk with his Woke ideas?  No brainer, eh?

Both those ladies, plus Christy in video one are right but I'd suggest that at least 20% of the guilt for that is laid right at the feet of the sex which initiates 71% of the divorces today.

Now, instead of us bickering or bantering over who, to which percentage point, is to blame, let's look at how we can make men men again and make women ladies.

Remember, Cornelia's sons in the quote from Ms Andrea are watching and learning just how much father cares for mother or mother cares for father.  Not the words, the actuality.

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